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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

The Physics Fiasco

Monday was THE day for most of us; The HSC Exam, March 2013, Physics. Almost everyone was confident about Physics, putting it down mentally as the subject that would boost our overall percentage. Physics ka kya hai? Tough hai, leking ho jaaega! was what we all believed.We were wrong.

 The main reason most of us picked HSC in the first place was because it was TONS easier when compared to the likes of CBSE and ISC. When the State Board decided to raise the level of the 12th standard to that of CBSE, albeit, pissing off as it was, nobody objected. What had to be done, had to be done. There was no two ways about it. All we could do was work a tad bit harder.

So everyone spent a full year slogging, making sure nothing important was left out. Teachers, all with years of experience in dealing with the Boards referred books and notes and cheatsheets to us, so as to make us more and more prepared for everything. By the last few months, it felt like there was nothing left to do, we solved tons of papers, braced ourselves, went to battle , and came back, bruised and broken.

The one question I have is, in a system where it isn't about learning, but about memory, is it even minutely logical to "study" something that that has a very low probability of being asked in the exam? If you ask me, I'd say no! And I bet so would most of my fellow batchmates . Why would anybody in their right senses NOT ask concepts which are actually relevant and important for future study in that subject? Why would they not follow the pattern of important questions, which they have been doing since forever? WHY are they trying to be SOMETHING THEY CAN NEVER BE! Making it more complicated doesn't make it better!

 Fact is, the board screwed up. Despite their justification (read news paper clipping below), I have no one to blame but them. As far as their point about us relying about coaching classes is concerned, Yes, we do rely on their notes more than we do on the sad-excuse-for-a-Text-Book  the State has provided us. Why? Because the text book is pure bullshit. We find the coaching class notes more student-friendly, we use it! It covers everything that we need to know in a chapter, is to the point, and is always better to refer to, because it is in our very own handwriting! Is the board trying to say that it purposely gave questions it knew wouldn't be there in the notes, just to show us our place? Is this some sort of a cheap form of vengeance?  Toying with the future of an ENTIRE BATCH of students is the way the board has of showing us that they are superior?

At the end of all of this, the only people losing out in this mess are the students; especially those who don't happen to have the ability to mugg-up entire books and write it like it is in the "text-books". It's a shame that something people worked so hard for more than a year had to go down this way. The Board doesn't seem to have the common sense to know that just raising the difficulty of an already messed-up syllabus isn't going to "raise it's standards"! If you really want to talk about standards, learn something from the systems in the world that are churning out hundreds and thousands of sound-minded individuals who have been educated in the true sense. Why even the WORLD! In our very own country, we have efficient systems in place. Learn from them!

But then again, I'm probably wasting my time expecting them to "learn". Like that's even possible in a country where everyone just wants to be like everyone else.

                                                    

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

A Not-So-Lucky's Take on Modern Relationships

There's been a major jump in mentalities behind relationships in the past decade. Lasting for A year together is seen as a major achievement, after which, nothing matters! The "L" word is far too often used; It's almost become like it means nothing at all! Talk about a guy, and someone goes like "Oh that one? I dated him for a couple of months!" The scenario has gone from when to commit meant to stick together and make it through life, to meaning just to try and not cheat on each other. Not that I really support my Generation's crass views on "hooking up", but the modern system has it's pro's too! Here's a 'Love it and Shove it' list on Modern Relationships.



Love It: 

  • It's a very good way to find out what you want. The more you see how much you dislike the characteristic qualities of your ex, the more you look out for them, making sure you NEVER pick a guy like that ever again.
  • Make mistakes how many ever times you want and learn from it! The chances that you're gonna end up with this guy are slim anyway! 
  • When you're not really planning to end up together, there's no guilt in leaving!
  • "So, are we dating?" "No, this is just a casual fling, so things won't be awkward between us!" :) (subtext: I'm going to use you for my physical needs, and make you feel like a princess in the process!) "ok! :)" 
  • When you don't really attach yourself so much, it's easier to remain friends after!

Shove It:

  • There's no hope for the community of hopeless romantics! They'll just be more and more broken hearted!
  • You get so used to the Date-Dump cycle, that's it's impossible for you to keep things going when the "real Thing" comes by.
  • The more people you have dated, the more the skeletons in your closet! One wrong move, and you'll be faced with too many decaying bones falling on you at once! 
  • The basic mentality that "we won't end up together anyway" SUCKS for some people, who are looking for something serious, and getting nothing!
  • If one of the two gets attached, things are going to get VERY ugly after the impending break up!

Conclusion:

Although the new system is more carefree and gives one more freedom and options, the fact that someone you fall head over heels for someone who might just think of you as just another fish in the ocean SUCKS! The biggest flaw now is one way love, which, as can be observed everywhere, is the worst of its kind! It's not easy to come to a closure, because you can't really blame anyone, because that's how everyone is now! And looking back honestly, chances that you've broken somebody too, is high. Personally, I believe that if there's something, it should be treated with care, try one's best not to send out a wrong signal, and be clear about one's stand and talk things out as much as possible, and the world will be a happier place! :)